As you probably already know, the fight for a healthy and loving relationship doesn’t stop the moment you get a girlfriend. In fact, maintaining an already existing relationship can often be just as challenging as starting one from scratch. Witness the incredibly high divorce rates of today, and you might just end up believing that every relationship is doomed from the start.
But the truth is, every relationship can be fulfilling as long as you’re willing to put in the work to keep it like that. With that in mind, let’s explore how to make your girlfriend obsessed with you, so you can keep her interest level high as the relationship progresses.
Oh, and one last thing before we begin…
If you want your girlfriend not just obsessed with you, but sexually obsessed as well, check out this video for the Obsession Formula by Adam Lyons (dude’s been voted the world’s #1 seducer for a reason!), or get all the details in this Obsession Formula review by NewspaperCat.org.
Alright, let’s get your girl obsessed with you…
1. Attraction Is Regulated Chemically
If you’ve ever been in a long-term relationship, you already understand how attraction tends to wax and wane after a while. This is normal, as the brain stops being flooded with dopamine and other feel-good chemicals after the excitement of being with someone new starts to fade.
The problem is that people tend to blame their partners when this happens. It’s very important to remember that it isn’t necessarily your fault if she starts growing distant after a while. However, it is your mission to try and keep her close as best you can.
2. Be Proactive
The best way to keep a woman’s attention long-term is to stay driven. This doesn’t mean showering her with gifts or going out of your way to keep her happy. In fact, the best approach is to keep pursuing your own dreams and goals, while also making sure to include her every step of the way.
This approach should extend to your love life as well. Don’t become one of those boyfriends who just drink beer and sit on the couch all day. Plan trips together, surprise her with tickets to events you think she’d like, and above all else stay ambitious in pursuing your goals and dreams. If you want your girlfriend to become obsessed with you, don’t fall into the trap of becoming lazy just because you’ve already hooked up.
3. Work To Keep Sex Fun And Interesting
It’s no secret that sex between any two people, no matter how thrilling it might seem in the beginning, tends to lose its luster after a while. But most people aren’t fully happy with just a “so-so” love life, so it’s mandatory that you listen to your girlfriend’s wants, needs, and desires and remain open to trying out new things from time to time. Who knows? You might end up liking it more than you’d think.
4. Be Confident But Not Cocky
It’s normal to feel more at ease when you have a loving girlfriend at your side. Still, this doesn’t excuse arrogant behavior like belittling her or flirting with other girls, and that type of behavior most certainly won’t make her obsessed with you.
Men tend to feel sure of themselves when they’re already with someone, which makes them more prone to cheating and other detestable behavior. That being said, you should maintain the same level of confidence that got her attracted to you in the first place. Otherwise, obsession can quickly turn to disinterest and heartbreak.
Finally, no matter how much you want to keep any given relationship going forever, it’s important to respect her individuality, even if this might eventually mean a life separate from your own. Learning how to make your girlfriend obsessed with you involves inviting her to be a part of the fun and exciting life you already have. It’s never about being possessive or trying to control and manipulate her.